"Marriage is an unconditional commitment to an imperfect person..." Tita Linda Soratorio

My head hurts right now, when i left the soratorio house and got in my car i got a headache. I think i got motion sickness from watching the video. agh i guess looking @ this computer isnt helping either. Anyway, tita linda gave us a "how to live a good relationship w/whoever your signifcant other might be." She gave us like a whole lot of different pointers, i wrote some down too cuz they were good stuff. Well as i read that quote it reminded me of another that i once read. It went something like, "love isnt trying to perfect person perfectly but learning to see the imperfect person perfectly." the other quote i used at the top it doesnt necessarly mean only in marriage but any relationship. Ill give the tita linda pointeres later on when i get to that part.

Today was cool, i havent been home at all really this past weekend. Its hard cuz there is so much going on, always something coming up. Let's see i went to mass today, i sat next to kuya. At first we were in the very back but we had to move cuz i cant stand sitting in the back of the church. I always have to be at least in the front or near the front. I dont like sitting too far back cuz well i juss dont. haha So yeah we ended up moving to the front to sit down. After lunch i went w/the soratorios to forest lawn to visit their dad. Went home for a little bit, then went back there for lyn lyns birfday.

It was fun we did a lot of dancing, eating, the food was good! We were listening to a lot of the ol skool freestyle. I love listening to that stuff i dont know its juss d0pe. Thas like where all of todays music is made out of too. It was coo cuz mostly errone was dancing, except for a few. You had strider breaking doing the ol skool stuff. Kuya doing windmills and wha not. Jovie showing errone how to harlem shake. Corn was doing what they do now @ the clubs...whoa!! babyvee doing her boxstep. Arch shaking his shoulders to the harlem shake. lyn lyn trying to learn some of the stuff they do now today. el huego shimm shimmying errwhere. Tita beyonce jamming to lisa lisa cuz her music is d0pe!! can you feel the beat w/in my heart...hahaha It makes thing a lot more exciting when errone participates and not only juss one person dancing. Thas why it was tight cuz there was so much participation going on!

Then we all got worn out and was like blah on the couch! haha well actually we took pictures of all kidns. group pictures, solo pictures, and more pictures. We had a uprm picture since it was uprms 1st anniversary, that was really cool. Its nice to see how much our relationships w/each other have grown within the year. Throughout the struggles the group had whether it was invidiually or as a whole group, we managed as always to get through them w/God's help of course. They all are a great group of unique brothers with pusos of gold. We know we can rely on each toher for help and one us falls, and we cant all be there, someone else is at least there to pick the brother up. Someone once said, "People say true friends must always hold hands, but true friends don't need to hold hands because they know the other hand will always be there." thas is exactly what uprm is to each other. Happy one year upRm, May God's grace and light continue to shine upon the group to guide and to lead us to another succesful year!

I found this quote right now and when i read it, i was like wow i have to use this one too. it reminded me of the relationship boss lady and i have together. "Once in a while you meet someone, and soon you both discover the two of you are truly something special to each other... you share your thoughts and feelings so relaxed, so openly, and right away you know your friendship's truly meant to be." it was really nice cuz i got to bond w/boss lady today to get cheesecake. We had a nice conversation that was juss like focusing on listening to one another. Sometimes thas all you need is someone there juss to listen. Not to make comments or to scold you, but juss to listen what you have to say. I really really really enjoy the moments when boss lady and i get bond together, its not very often we get to do that. She's such a wonderful sister, who is so compassionate, loving, warm, friendly, trustworthy and not to mention cute too! haha kuyas soo lucky! hahahaha. She's very giving of herself to other people. I never thought befoe that there was as someone who can get as crazy as i can. Who can fool around and learn juss to have fun. haha i remember meeting her at youth alpha when she gave her testimony i was wow! i went up to her and complimented her on it and stuff. Then i remember i asked her if i could borrow to burn the SH music that they had made. She was like oh yeah sure, and juss really nice bout it. haha i dont think she even knew me really. Then wha else, oOh i remember how her and kuya came to my class and taught my kids praise & worship songs and cheers too. i was like wow she's soo cool! hahah anyway, boss lady has all the qualities of a good friend, but she goes way past & beyond them! thanks God for sending me boss lady! Ü

random thought, ive been thinking its crazy im so use to calling robby, "kuya" that it feels weird when i call him by "robby." haha jus like its weird when i hurr el huego call me by my first name cuz im so use to hearing him call by my last. haha okay anyway moving on. We watched the videos from the mission trip and christmas party tonite, i got motion sickness! haha Before that tita linda was sharing some valuable information bout relationships. I like listening to her talks cuz her stories are always so amazing and nice.
SHe mentioned that your mate that you woudl want should be someone who will help you get closer to God. Where God will be the basis of your relationship. Tita also said dont be so negative thinking, there is no one out there for you and what not. She made a really good point how you shouldnt lookin online for a gf or through classifieds or psyhics cuz its an insult to God. I never thought bout it that way either. ALso dont stress over looking for the "one" concentrate more on how you can help out your brotthers and sisters, through like community service and what not. I thought id share some of the food for thought to ponder on! Really good helpful stuff to remember.

Well my head still hurts and i cant type anymore cuz i dont wanna feel bleh tomrrow. So i shall end with someone tita beyonce said bout finding the one. She said "if God really wanted to be w/someone then created particular person out there juss for you." ahh juss gotta let her come to you i guess? its so hard to find a good catholic girl now a days. I thought i found the one i wanted before...but apparently not. ::sigh:: haha woe is me! hahah jk

"Take me, take me in your arms and dont you let me go i need more and more..." im done...im out God bless!